Hyderabad: Shun lavish weddings, elders recount Muslims
Hyderabad: Alarmed over the tendency of lavish marriages in the Muslim residential district, former Director-General of Police Syed Anwarul Huda, IPS (retd), called for boycott of such weddings.
Despite calls by reformers to shun the customary way of operation or behavior, there is no switch. According to some observers, outgo on weddings has only gone up. Time and again, there have got been calls by the residential district elders to boycott such weddings.
Even though it is a sumptuous ceremonial occasion for guests, the hosts, owing to relating to arts ethos outer layer of nuts or fruits out lakhs. A three-day wedding ceremony ceremonial occasion for a kin costs Rs 10 lakh to Rs 15 lakh, which surely is their savings of years.
The 126th ‘Du-Ba-Du Mulaqat’ programme was organised by Siasat Millat Fund at KH Function Hall, Asifnagar, where parents searched for complete matches for their sons and daughters.
At the programme, Huda said: “Relationships are made in heaven. Compliments are due to those parents who make the choice of alliances between their boys and girls based on Islamic rules and regulations. It is necessary that instead of spending extravagant wealth in marriages, parents will keep wealth for the newly married boys and girls, to ensure a successful life.”
He congratulated officials of Siasat and Millat Fund for organising such programmes not only in the offspring born at the same time cities, but also in districts and not the same States.
Syed Farooq Ahmad, a Millat part of a social group, said Islam has upped self-esteem of women. Islam gives value to women in homes and society. He said parents supply knowledge acquired by learning and grooming to girls with a parcel of land having fixed boundaries of not yielding to pressure body of work and dedication so that they can die to in-laws and unrecorded happily.
Dr Nazim Ali said girls should be well known with household chores and sample to give a performance austere marriages. He exhorted them to celebrate holidays or rites Sunnahs of Prophet Mohammed in head when choosing relationships, and not to slaves to desires.